DIY "How to Write Heartfelt Vows: A Guide for Couples"

Writing your own wedding vows can be one of the most meaningful parts of your ceremony. It’s a chance to speak from the heart, share your love story, and make promises that are uniquely yours. But we get it—putting your feelings into words can feel a bit overwhelming! That’s why we’ve put together this simple guide to help those of you with the desire, craft vows that are personal, romantic, and true to your relationship.

1. Once Upon A Time Before you start writing, take a moment to reflect on the journey that led to this here. Take time to Ponder:

• When you first met and what drew you to each other.

• A special moment that defined your relationship (your first trip together, a memorable date, or a shared experience).

• The qualities you love most about your partner. By looking back on these memories, you’ll find inspiration for what to include in your vows.

• When did you know it was meant to be?

2. Keep It Cute! Your vows should be personal and honest but remember that you’ll be sharing them in front of an audience, including your loved ones. That's right, Nana's and PopPop's, and possibly little's of varying ages. It’s okay to include a few inside jokes or sweet anecdotes but try to strike a balance so everyone can appreciate the sentiment.

3. Ring to You The heart of your vows are the promises you make to each other. Focus on promises that are meaningful and realistic, to you as a couple. Not just who you are as newlyweds, but who you want to be as a couple over a lifetime. An enduring couple through the obstacles that life will surely bring. The realistic pitfalls that you may have witnessed befall other couples. They don’t have to be grand or poetic—they just need to be sincere. Here are some examples:

• “I promise to support you through life’s challenges, big and small.”

• “I vow to always be your partner, your confidant, and your biggest fan.”

• “I promise to laugh with you in good times and comfort you in the tough times.”

4. Keep It Short and Sweet While it’s tempting to write a lengthy declaration of love, keeping your vows short and sweet will have a bigger impact. Aim for about 1-2 minutes per person. This way, your words will be memorable and leave everyone feeling the love without dragging on too long.

5. Practice, But Don’t Over-Rehearse Once you’ve written your vows, practice reading them aloud a few times (don't be tempted to share before the big day)! This will help you get comfortable with the words and ensure you don’t stumble over any parts. However, try not to over-rehearse—it’s okay to have a few nerves on the big day, and speaking from the heart will make your vows even more special.

Writing your own vows is a beautiful way to add a specialized touch to your wedding ceremony. If you decide to take this challenge on, take your time, speak from the heart, and remember that there is no “right” way to do it—it’s all about what feels true to you. And if you need a little help along the way, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.

Call to Action: Looking for more wedding tips or help with crafting your ceremony? Contact us today, and let’s make your special day unforgettable!